Designer, Charles Josef
By Charles Josef
Traditional weddings in elegant ballrooms that reflect the good taste of the ruling mother of the bride are rare to find these days. As many couples fund their own weddings, they may break from tradition and make choices that reflect their personal tastes. In the local weddings that I have experienced, certain styles in fashion pop up again and again. What keeps them fresh is the couple’s ability to interpret the trends that suit their personalities and allow the day to tell their story. For those looking for inspiration, I’ve explored three trends below.
That ’70s Dress
The bohemian style is big in the mountains, and trends of the ’70s are showing up in many bridal gown details, such as flounces, off-the-shoulder necklines, and silhouettes that resemble the maxi dress of that decade—long and flowing with a graceful A-line and few crinolines, if any. It’s not profound to suggest that lace is popular. You will find, however, that the traditional alençon lace has been largely replaced by chantilly and other sheer and lightweight laces. The mixing of different types of lace is quite popular, veering from tradition. Gowns off the rack can easily capture this look and custom designed gowns allow you to add some favorite details. If you want a ’70s look, seek out cotton eyelet fabrics, dotted swiss, point d’esprit, and lace trimmed chiffon. If you desire to wear an heirloom gown passed down from brides before you, customize it to make it your own and show off your personal style.
The Bavarian Prince
The groom is bringing his own opinions to the table when couples plan weddings together. Sometimes the classic tux can be too formal, restrictive, or hot for a casual outdoor wedding. These days, you’ll find grooms clad in vests, suspenders, and colorful bow ties. The look is quite charming and can anchor the entire casual chic theme. Those who want to amp up the look can try a Bavarian jacket for cooler weather or an Edwardian vest for warmer times. The collar details will offer a slight formality and interest without being too stuffy. Ties can both speak to the groom’s personality and complement the color palette. An ascot loosely tied as a necktie or a wide ribbon tied in a bow and allowed to flop downward can add a nice touch.
Mothers in Lovely Fashion
Today, 60 is the new 40 and mothers of the bride and groom are more fit, stylish, and youthful than ever before. Straying from traditional attire, these women are showing off their personal flair with fine dresses that reflect who they are, from earth mother to corporate executive, and all styles in between. Coordinating with the bride’s color palette is a consideration, but most mothers are choosing flattering neutrals rather than one of the bride’s colors.
One last bit of advice to the happy couple. It’s your day; make it so! Nothing is written in stone so make your own rules and remember that the most important opinion is yours. After planning for months, the day itself will be gone in an instant, so get great photos and enjoy it!
Charles Josef (charlesjosefbridal.com) is a bridal designer and stylist operating out of Asheville, available by appointment.
